According to Osho, care becomes interference the moment ideology enters it—when you add beliefs, ideals, goals, or conditions and try to shape the other. Then love turns cunning, protection becomes a prison, and relationship sours. True care is unconditional presence and support, allowing the other to choose their own way, accepted totally, without bargains or ambitions.
Caring crosses into interference when you push your ideas onto someone; real love helps them grow in their own way without strings attached.