According to Osho, when your heart hurts and you feel emptied out, drop the hope that others will see or fix it; the heart is your solitary shrine. Use the pain as fuel to go totally "mad" with love and trust—risk all, stop bookkeeping. Turn inward: love opens the heart, meditation reaches the soul; then leap, and the Divine's pull will carry you.
When it hurts and you feel lost, stop waiting for others; go inside with love and meditation, jump in totally, and let existence pull you through.