According to Osho, there’s no real difference between self-respect and pride; both are the natural dignity of your individuality—noncomparative acceptance, love, and gratitude for simply being. The problem is ego: a comparative stance that declares superiority and makes others inferior. True pride/self-respect honors yourself without reference to others and invites everyone to honor themselves, flowering as gratitude to existence.
It’s good to like and respect yourself as long as you don’t compare yourself to others; trouble begins when you need to feel above them.