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Osho on What is it to be a man?

What is it to be a man?

To be a man is to embrace the journey of becoming, crafting your own essence with every thought and action, for you are pure freedom and endless possibility.

— Osho
According to Osho, to be a man is not a fixed ‘being’ but an open-ended becoming—a quest, not a question. Man is born without a predetermined program or soul; he is pure freedom and possibility. Each thought and act shapes the soul. The task is to consciously create oneself, choosing direction and growing intentionally.

You aren’t pre-programmed; you get to choose who you become, so be aware and shape yourself with your choices.