A guru’s blessing helps you relax and trust so deeply that your tight, worried mind unwinds, and your body naturally heals.
From the Discourses
Passages where Osho speaks to this question — each links to the complete discourse.
Osho, even after arriving at the camp why does a divide still appear? Does the distance vanish the moment one takes sannyas? Is your blessing only for sannyasins? Is it not for all living beings?
Blessing is for everyone. But it is not that just because I give it you will receive it; you will receive it only if you take it. The river is flowing—flowing for all. Trees will drink, animals and birds will drink, humans will drink. But only the one who drinks will be quenched. If you stand stiff on the bank, the river will not jump into your cupped hands. You will have to bend, you will have to form your palms into a cup—only then will you be able to drink. If you do not drink, if the water is not drunk, then do not complain about the river. The river was flowing. But man is very upside down. If he does not receive blessing, he thinks the blessing must not have been given. But do you have the capacity to receive? Will you accept blessing? Blessing is not a…
Osho, I seek your blessing. But what I want from the blessing is not at all clear. Please clarify that too. From my side only this much is certain: I want your blessing.
This is beautiful—what you say is beautiful. Whatever blessing you yourself specify will go wrong; your demand will creep in. Some craving will slip in through the back door. Your asking will be your desire. The blessing you ask for will go astray. If you are to ask for a blessing, ask like this: I don’t know what I want; I just want a blessing. Then that which you cannot even think of can be given. That which you could not imagine can happen. And what truly should come to you—the receiving of which will fulfill you—is not yet in your imagination. How could it be? You have no experience of that ray. That drop has not yet descended into your throat. So your question is lovely; your question is meaningful. You did well not to attach a condition to the blessing. People do. People won’t even ask for a…
A woman has asked: I am your admirer, I love your ideas, but I cannot take sannyas. Then will I not receive your blessing?
Yesterday, in the Punjab Kesari—a newspaper from Jalandhar—I was reading a report. It said that in the capital a Ramlila was going on. The scene was Shurpanakha’s nose being cut. When she came to Rama, a song began to play on a record in a nearby hotel: “If someone like you were to come into my life, everything would be perfect,” and Shurpanakha began to dance to this tune. The audience must have been astonished. Those who had dozed off must have woken up. No sooner was her nose cut than another song played: “Whether it’s glass or a heart, in the end it breaks,” and Shurpanakha again swayed and danced. Such is the unconsciousness! Break this stupor. These records are playing in the hotels outside—how long will you keep dancing to them? Inside too a melody is playing—the melody of emptiness. A flute is sounding; the unstruck sound is…
[NOTE: This is an unedited tape transcript of an unpublished darshan diary, which has been copy-typed on to the computer. It is for reference purposes only.] Sannyas means to become consecrated to god Surrendered to god. Sannyas means allowing god to live through you. You simply stand aside You don't come in between, you don't hinder. You open all the doors to the sun, to the moon To the wind, to the rain To all the messengers of god. You are simply available to existence With your whole heart Without holding anything back. In that very moment When you are not holding anything back Prayer has happened. In that very moment the ego is no more The barrier has fallen And suddenly we are one with the whole. And to be one with the whole Is bliss, is benediction.
Bliss is a state of utter non-excitement, absolute stillness. One is never tired, hence it can be eternal. Happiness can only be momentary: bliss can be timeless. Unconsciously everybody is moving towards it. Sannyas means a conscious movement towards it, deliberate, judging each step, evaluating each move, with a target, with a distant star in one's vision. Paritosh means absolute contentment, prem means love -- love for absolute contentment. Let that be your work. Let all kinds of discontent disappear. Don't cling to them; they remain only because we cling. Open your fists -- let all the birds of discontent fly away. For a few days you will feel very alone, because one becomes accustomed to one's miseries; they become companions. One feels full; that's why people cling even to misery.