According to Osho, when men feel afraid after gender discussions, it reflects a deeper truth: in lovemaking men expend energy and, in a free, non-monogamous setting, repeated affairs leave them spent and cautious. Fear arises when they feel pressured into intercourse. Given freedom and compassionate warmth—cuddling, nonsexual closeness—the fear dissolves, and desire returns naturally when energy is available.
Men get scared if they feel pushed to have sex; let them rest and enjoy closeness, and their desire comes back by itself.