According to Osho, any loss has no real compensation; trying to 'make up' for it—whether by retaliatory anger or by parading forgiveness—only feeds the ego, often more subtly. Crude conceit becomes refined vanity, harder to detect, so you end up more entangled. See the loss as loss, without egoic balancing acts.
When you lose something, you can’t fix it by getting mad or by showing off how ‘forgiving’ you are; that just grows your ego.