According to Osho, progress stalls when the same mind tries to change itself—it only represses symptoms and deepens the inner split between 'what is' and 'what should be.' Real transformation arises effortlessly through total acceptance of yourself as you are. Acceptance dissolves division, awakens intelligence, and heals from the roots, allowing change to happen naturally rather than by egoic effort.
Stop fighting yourself; accept who you are right now, and real change will grow on its own.