According to Osho, feeling disconnected from the commune means you are still clinging to words, possessiveness, and fear; you have not yet come close to him. The commune is his expanded being—his presence in many forms—so true love for him naturally opens you to it. Enter the wordless silence between words; there you meet him, yourself, and the commune as one understanding.
If you feel apart from the group, your mind is noisy and possessive—be silent between words, and you’ll feel that he and the whole commune are one with you.