According to Osho, when you fear intimacy and losing control, you cripple love’s natural flow: the ego protects itself by withholding orgasmic surrender, turning sex into a quick, mechanical act. This fear blocks the no-mind, timeless taste of bliss that points toward meditation, stunts spiritual growth, and breeds frustration, irritability, and conflict in relationships—especially by denying women their innate capacity for deep, multiple orgasms.
If you’re scared to get close and let go, you block joy for both of you and end up tense and unhappy.