According to Osho, when you embrace spontaneity in relationships, you drop control and the habit of dividing 'me/you,' 'now/then.' Living totally in the present dissolves anxiety and the tense 'I,' making you vulnerable yet alive. The whole (Tao) moves through the connection; joy and authenticity arise as you disappear into the moment rather than manage outcomes.
Be fully here with the other person without trying to manage or predict, and worry fades while real closeness grows.