According to Osho, when you try to understand with the head, you leave the living meaning and collect dead words—becoming merely intellectual. Begin by joyfully listening from the heart; its overflow tunes the mind, dissolving conflict. Then hearing is both vibe and clarity. If the head leads, it pretends, is greedy, and kills meaning.
Listen with your heart first so joy flows; then your mind understands naturally—forcing it with the head turns living truth into dry words.