According to Osho, you don’t “balance” maturity with childlikeness by adopting poses; you drop the mask. When you honestly allow your childlike energy instead of faking maturity, growth happens on its own. Personality (the showcase) falls away, individuality (the same taste throughout) arises, conflict ends, and true maturity—innocent, spontaneous, and integrated—flowers.
Stop pretending to be a grown-up; be real, even if childish, and you’ll naturally grow up without losing your playful heart.