According to Osho, true help begins only after self-transformation: the blind cannot lead the blind. Become aflame—authentic, awake, blissful—then your very presence, example, and lived experience can guide others. Advice and good intentions without realization breed confusion and ego; first see, cleanse yourself, walk the path, then share your light carefully.
Light your own lamp first; once you can see, you can safely help others see too.