According to Osho, to be a human being is to rest in your unchanging being — not in shifting thoughts or feelings, nor borrowed roles and masks. Like a rose cannot be a lotus, you can only be uniquely yourself. Rooted in this authenticity, you grow up (not merely old), becoming more deeply you, bringing dignity, blessings, and ecstasy.
Stop pretending and notice the quiet part of you that doesn’t change; live from there and just be yourself.