According to Osho, growth is not something you do; it happens when the ego dissolves. Simply be with the master - alert, aware, receptive - and you naturally become more silent, loving, soft, and humble, flowing with existence. When you melt like a snowflake into life, the barrier of the self disappears. This is effortless action without action.
Just relax, stay aware, and let your busy me melt so kindness and peace grow on their own.