According to Osho, dishonesty turns relationships into ego-maintenance: you keep repainting a 'good' image, so every act is corrupted, manipulative, and immature. This breeds inner agony and prevents real intimacy, because doing replaces being. Don’t rush to fix it; simply stay alert to your insincerity. That naked awareness dissolves the ego and lying drops by itself—then authenticity, trust, and love arise as grace, not achievement.
Being fake makes you keep up a mask that hurts love; quietly noticing the fakery makes it fade so real closeness can grow.