According to Osho, possessiveness and chauvinism arise from inner inferiority and poverty masked by pretended superiority—hoarding power, people, or ‘spirituality’ to cover a wound. Freedom comes by seeing this strategy clearly, dropping hypocrisy, and turning inward: acknowledge the inner lack, cultivate awareness/meditation, and live authentically. When inner richness flowers, the urge to own, dominate, or prove disappears.
See that wanting to own or boss others hides feeling small; admit the hurt, meditate, and the grip of control fades.