According to Osho, personality endures precisely while there is choosing or craving—down to the faintest desire, even the wish to be compassionate. Only total negation of desire dissolves the persona. In that vanishing, a final glow of compassion appears, like sunset's redness—quiet, non-interfering, easily mistaken for desire—after which the separate 'someone' is gone.
If you still want anything—even to be kind—your pretend self stays; when all wanting stops, that mask falls away and a quiet, non-fixing care remains.