According to Osho, Eastern women often seem graceful, not because they are fulfilled, but because ignorance prevents frustration: you suffer only when you know a possibility and are denied it. Conditioned to see sex as duty, misled about orgasm (clitoral, not vaginal), and used for reproduction, they remained unaware; men suppressed this knowledge fearing women’s multiple-orgasm capacity. Western frustration rose once research exposed the deception.
They looked calm because no one told them about orgasm; if you don’t know a treat exists, you don’t miss it, and sex was treated as duty, not delight.