According to Osho, you are not your brother’s keeper; no one is meant to manage another. Your sole responsibility is to yourself: become deeply centered, joyful, and fulfilled. From such inner richness, love and service arise spontaneously, not as duty or sacrifice. Obligatory altruism breeds resentment and poisons relationships; authentic care flows naturally when you overflow, first loving yourself, then sharing without burden.
Fill your own cup first; when you’re happy inside, being kind to others happens naturally and doesn’t feel heavy.