According to Osho, the supreme 'best' is never to be born (already missed); the second best is psychological death: drop the ego by dying to all yesterdays and tomorrows, resting in present suchness; the third best is love, the sweetest way to dissolve the ego, giving courage and grace to vanish into pure being.
The best thing for you is to drop your “me, me, me” by living only in the present; if that’s tough, let love melt your ego.