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What happens when there is a close personal relationship between disciple and master, but transmission does not occur?

When the disciple clings to expectation, the door to transmission remains closed; only in surrender and emptiness does the true connection with the master unfold.

— Osho
According to Osho, if intimacy exists yet transmission doesn't, the disciple is simply not ready—the ego still watches, desires, and chatters within. Proximity, vows, or titles are necessary but not sufficient. Only the master can judge readiness; the 'keys' arrive instantly when the disciple dissolves in surrender, becomes empty, obsession-free, and unconcerned with attainment. Expectation itself is the barrier; infinite patience and vulnerability open the channel.

Being near a master isn’t enough; when you stop wanting, quiet your inner noise, and trust without expecting, the spark happens by itself.

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