According to Osho, betrayal hardens you only if you remain in the mind; in the presence of love, that hardness melts. Instead of contracting, let yourself be “soaked” in love—then the heart becomes your home and you radiate effortlessly. Love is caught, not taught; near a man of love, your future opens and old wounds lose their grip.
When someone hurts you, don’t shut down—stay close to love so it softens the pain and opens your heart again.