According to Osho, you cannot make children inward-looking by direct teaching or pressure; it awakens ego and resistance. Transform yourself first—find peace, direction, and the music within. Your lived example, the silent 'shadow' of your being, influences them indirectly. Avoid prohibitions and moral pushing; instead create a spacious, trusting atmosphere where curiosity and inner orientation arise naturally.
Become the calm, genuine person you want your child to be, and stop pushing—your example will quietly guide them inward.