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Why are sex and money deeply connected?

When sex is repressed, its energy transforms into greed, making money a substitute lover that promises what the heart truly desires.

— Osho
According to Osho, sex and money are linked because money is institutionalized power that can buy bodies, turning women into property, from harems to prostitution; and psychologically, when sex is repressed, its energy is displaced into greed—money becomes a substitute lover and idol. Thus wealth amplifies sexual access externally, while inner suppression converts sexual longing into compulsive accumulation.

Money can buy sex on the outside, and when we push sex down inside, that same energy clings to money instead.

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Beloved master, why do I always feel that sex and money are somehow deeply connected with each other?

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From Darkness To Light · Discourse 24Question 1 1985-03-25 Lao Tzu Grove English

Beloved Osho, I have heard you say that tribes which are not sex-repressive remain poor, and societies which are sex-repressive become rich and creative. Osho, your communes are not sex-repressive and yet they are rich and creative. Can you comment?

The second son thought, "What this brother is doing is not right, does not seem to be right, because our father emphatically said, `These same seeds I would like to be returned.' So I will keep these seeds." He made arrangements in the basement of the house, put all the seeds there, locked it, and said, "Now whenever he comes I will give him the key and say, `These are the seeds.'" But the third one had a different idea. He said, "Seeds kept in a basement will not remain alive; they need soil. By the time our father returns they will not be the same seeds because they will be dead. They cannot sprout -- how can you call them the same seeds? The seeds that our father has given us can sprout, can become trees. One seed can produce millions of seeds; that is what he has given.…
From Death To Deathlessness · Discourse 22Question 3 1985-08-27 Rajneeshmandir English

Beloved Osho, can you talk about money? What are all these feelings which are around money? What makes it so powerful that people sacrifice their lives for it?

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Osho, you just said that in sexual intercourse both woman and man lose energy, but the common belief is that a woman is nourished by the man’s semen in intercourse. Please clarify.

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Beloved Osho, why is money such a loaded issue? It seems as though when we have money, either we feel guilty about it, and thus compelled to spend it, or insecure, and therefore want to hold onto it. Obviously it affects a multitude of areas that revolve around the pivot of power and freedom. The curious thing is that even to discuss the subject of money is somehow as much a taboo as discussing sex or death at the dinner table. Please comment.

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