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What is the nature of gratitude and its relationship to outer objects?

True gratitude is not a response to an outer giver; it is the spontaneous fragrance of awareness that blooms when all desires dissolve.

— Osho
According to Osho, gratitude is not thankfulness directed to an outer giver; that is mere gratefulness, a response to desire being gratified. True gratitude has no object—outer or inner. It arises spontaneously like a fragrance when all desires subside and one’s being flowers into awareness. As a by-product of awakening, it radiates as love, compassion, bliss, and ecstasy.

Real gratitude is a warm glow that comes from inside for no reason, not a ‘thank you’ to someone for giving you what you wanted.

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Eighty Four Thousand Poems · Discourse 7Para 27 1980-04-09 Chuang Tzu Auditorium English
The cloud represents a few things. One: it represents absolute freedom. It is not tethered to anything. It is completely free, it floats in freedom. That's how a sannyasin has to be: Like a cloud, untethered. Secondly, the cloud has no fixed form. It is not static It is constantly moving and changing. Not even for the consecutive seconds is it the same. That represents something very essential: Life is movement; only death is not a movement. Only dead thins don't change Things which are alive are constantly changing. That's how a sannyasin has to be: Always on the move, changing REaching for newer horizons Exploring for newer pastures. A sannyasin is as unpredictable as a cloud; Nobody can say what form It is going to take next moment. And thirdly, the cloud has no ego of its own.
A Bird On The Wing · Discourse 11Question 3 1974-06-20 Buddha Hall English

Beloved Osho,

YOU'VE SAID MEDITATION IS A FLOWERING. AND FOR US, THE PERFUME OF THE FLOWER IS GRATITUDE. IS THERE ANYTHING WE CAN DO FOR YOU? Yes. Meditation, compassion and gratitude. Whenever you are meditative, you feel blissful; whenever you are in compassion, you feel ecstatic. And then gratitude arises -- not towards anyone in particular, gratitude just arises. It is not towards me or towards Jesus, or Zarathustra or Buddha, it is simply gratitude. You feel so grateful just for being here, just for being alive, just for being able to be meditative, just for being able to be in compassion. You feel simply grateful. That gratefulness is not towards anybody, it is towards the whole. If you feel grateful towards me it is a gratitude of the mind. If you meditate and if you flower in compassion you will feel simply grateful, not grateful towards me. Then there is no…

Beloved Osho, some time ago, in answer to my question as to whether enlightenment is the only way a disciple can express gratitude to her master, I heard you say that nothing could express the gratitude. I realized then that gratitude is something that we usually feel almost burdened with, and so we seek to find an outlet for it so that we are relieved of a debt. As the disciple can't express her gratitude -- and what would the master do with it anyway? -- it seems to me that it could become a kind of quality in someone that could transform them. Would you please comment?

In existence, there is nothing which is a noun. You say this is a tree, but have you ever thought? -- while you are saying this is a tree, the tree is bringing new leaves, old leaves are falling; new flowers are blossoming, old flowers are disappearing. It is not a dead thing; hence, it cannot be a noun. It is a living entity, it is changing constantly. The word `tree' gives a false idea, as if there is something unchanging. It will be better to call it a `treeing' -- because the tree is continuously moving. The river is `rivering' -- it is a movement, it is not stale, it is not dead. In other words, the existence does not consist of dead matter, it consists of living energy. There is nothing permanent except change. If you can, with awareness, change your burdens into wings, your treasures into fragrances,…
Jin Khoja Tin Paiyan · Discourse 12 1970-07-05 Bombay Hindi

Osho, in a previous talk you said you prefer shaktipat to be as close to grace as possible. Doesn’t that imply that the method of shaktipat admits gradual refinement and development? In other words, is qualitative progress also possible in the process of shaktipat?

From one who has attained the seventh body, shaktipat becomes the purest—the purest. Yet it is still not grace. The purest state of shaktipat is reached at the seventh body—no further. On that side there is no veil now; for the one in the seventh there is no veil—he is one with the void. But on your side there is a veil. You will still take him to be a person. Your veil will now provide the final obstruction. From his side there is none, but for you he remains a person. The sense of personhood toward the medium is also an obstacle Understand: if I attain the seventh state, it is my affair that I know I am the void—but you? You will know me as a person. And your notion that I am a person becomes the last veil. That veil will fall only when the happening befalls…
Fingers Pointing To The Moon · Discourse 6Question 1 1980-03-11 Chuang Tzu Auditorium English

Gratitude is the essence of prayer

Doubt is a perfectly adequate method for extrovert enquiries, it is the right method. I am not against doubt. It has tremendous importance. The whole edifice of science stands on it: doubt and doubt, unless you stumble upon something that you cannot doubt. But still that is only a hypothesis. That means you are still not going to trust it absolutely. Who knows? -- tomorrow some new facts may turn up, so keep the doors open for doubts. For the time being, use it hypothetically; for the time being this is true, but only for the time being. Science never comes to truth, only to approximations, hypotheses. Religion is a totally different endeavour: it begins in trust. It needs faith, such faith that no doubt ever arises. Not that one has to repress doubt; if you repress it, it will be there. One has to watch, one has not to…
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