According to Osho, there is no real East-West divide in sannyas; you can never be 'too much of the heart.' What's called Indian warmth often masks cultural conditioning - imposition in the name of love. True love cares for the other's wellbeing, not heritage or guilt. Therefore, be clear and set gentle boundaries with Eastern devotees; authenticity matters more than tradition.
There isn’t a big East/West difference; real love cares while habit pushes, so kindly say yes or no.