According to Osho, a soulmate is when all seven energy centers of two people harmonize, producing unio mystica—two bodies, one soul; such meetings are extraordinarily rare and almost accidental. Because outer soulmate-unity is so unlikely, seek a master: the master catalyzes the tuning of your seven centers, turning love into meditation within, so you meet your own ‘soul-mate’—your being—and become capable of deeper, truer relating.
Since a perfect partner is almost impossible to find, let a true guide help you become whole inside so you can love better.