According to Osho, to be master of one's sexual energy is not to conquer it but to stop dividing yourself at all. Sexual energy is your own life-force—befriend it, observe it, and use it creatively. Through relaxed awareness, acceptance, and refinement, this raw energy flowers into love, compassion, prayer, even samadhi; egoic struggle only wastes and withers it.
Don’t fight your sexual feelings—be friendly and aware with them, and they can naturally turn into love and peace.