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What can I do to accept life and find joy within myself?

Boredom is a signal that you are living from borrowed patterns; embrace it, drop the second-hand roles, and dare to live authentically from your own center to rediscover the joy of life.

— Osho
According to Osho, boredom is an auspicious signal that you’re living from borrowed patterns, not your own truth. Accept it, then drop second‑hand roles and risk living authentically—do what you intrinsically feel called to, regardless of prestige or results. Be sincere and respectful toward your being. When you act from your own center, life regains ‘juice’ and joy arises naturally.

Notice boredom, stop copying others, and bravely do what you truly love—joy will show up by itself.

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The Goose Is Out · Discourse 9Question 3 1981-03-09 Buddha Hall English

Osho, I have discovered that I am just bored with myself and I feel no juice. You have said to accept ourselves, whatever we are. I am not able to accept life -- knowing that I am missing something of joy inside. What to do?

Bob Luka, we hear there is a new type of tranquilizer that doesn't relax you -- just makes you dig being tense. Try it! Try it and try it and try it again -- be an American! -- but not more than three times. Try it, try it, and try it again, and then stop because there is no point in being silly. You ask me: I HAVE DISCOVERED THAT I AM JUST BORED WITH MYSELF... This is a great discovery. Yes, I mean it! Very few people are aware that they are bored, and they are bored, utterly bored. Everybody else knows it except themselves. To know that one is bored is a great beginning; now a few implications have to be understood. Man is the only animal who feels boredom; it is a great prerogative, it is part of the dignity of human beings. Have you seen any…

Osho, I have not got any interest in anything. It all seems to be meaningless. Nothing, excites, provokes or challenges me. There is no juice, no zest. I have felt like this all my life. Why should I do this or that when nothing fulfills me anyway? I am always trying to be joyful -- pretending to feel, to be excited, interested and alive. I am always trying to be courageous, to jump over some of my fears. But for what? I am tired I feel that "I am not" -- and even that I don't really feel. Osho, where am I?

Christians say he created the world exactly four thousand four years before Jesus Christ. Of course, it must have been a Monday he started; the week starts on Monday. But the question is, four thousand four years before Jesus Christ -- that makes only six thousand years... and what he had been doing for the whole eternity? Just vegetating? And if he could manage for the whole eternity, he should have managed for six thousand years more, because six thousand years are not much compared to eternity. Not even six moments... And if he had to create a world, he had to create this world? Maybe he was feeling lonely, but why so many people have to suffer for that? Let him feel lonely; he can commit suicide. But why so many people should suffer? And how he is feeling now? Very great? Because since then he has not been…
Ah This · Discourse 2Question 2 1980-01-04 Buddha Hall English
Question: OSHO, I FEEL LIFE IS VERY BORING. WHAT SHOULD I DO? Brij Mohan, AS IT IS, YOU HAVE ALREADY DONE ENOUGH. You have made life boring -- some achievement! Life is such a dance of ecstasy and you have reduced it to boredom. You have done a miracle! What else do you want to do? You can't do anything bigger than this. Life and boring? You must have a tremendous capacity to IGNORE life. Just the other day I was telling you that ignorance means the capacity to ignore. You must be ignoring the birds, the trees, the flowers, the people. Otherwise, life is so tremendously beautiful, so ABSURDLY beautiful, that if you can see it as it is you will never stop laughing. You will go on giggling -- at least inside. Life is not boring, but MIND is boring.

Osho, why is life so boring?

LIFE AND BORING? Man, what are you talking about? You must be living in a kind of death. It is not life that is boring -- you must be dead! That's why you are feeling bored. Rather than taking responsibility on your own shoulders, you are throwing it on life. But that's how the human mind continuously goes on playing games. It always throws the responsibility on somebody else; it always finds a scapegoat. It is very irresponsible. And those who are irresponsible will never change. Don't say life is boring -- see that you don't know how to live. You must be living in a wrong way; you must be living in a negative way. You must be living at the minimum; your life must be a lukewarm life -- that's why it is boring. Life is incredibly ecstatic, but then it has to be lived at the optimum.…

Last night you talked about boredom. How can we hope for an enlightened society when in order to maintain society most people must perform boring, monotonous and repetitive tasks?

Ask the child. He is going to the school, he is bored. He says, `I am going for my father. He feels happy. If I don't go he feels very miserable.' And your wife? -- she is doing everything just for you and the children. No one is really existing for himself. No one loves himself enough to exist for himself. Then everything goes wrong. The source is poisoned, and then all that comes out of that source is poisoned. And don't think that if you change your job, you will love it. No, you will bring your quality to the new job also. In the beginning it may be a sensation, something new, but sooner or later you will settle down and it will be the same. Change yourself, love yourself, and love whatsoever you do; howsoever small it makes no difference. I am reminded of an anecdote. It…
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