What is self-realization and how does it relate to existence and relationships with people?

According to Osho, 'self-realization' is a contradiction; true realization is no-self (anatta). When the self drops, you become one with existence—cosmic, not separate. Relationship belongs to two selves; it is a facade of duality. From realization there is no relationship, only oneness; others may relate to you, but you are simply presence inviting their own no-self.