Marriage

Kids won’t ‘belong’ to mom or dad; everyone lovingly helps raise them.

You’re scared because it’s unknown and you hope it will complete you—but only by trying will you learn happiness must come from inside, not a spouse.

He jokes about marriage because many people hide pain behind smiles; if yours is truly happy, great—just be honest.

He jokes about marriage because people follow it blindly expecting happiness, but end up unhappy; better to be brave, aware, and create love freshly—or not at all.

Turning love into a rule makes it stiff and jail-like; only love itself, not a legal paper, keeps two people truly together.

He's not confused—he gives different advice: if you're brave, choose free love; if you're afraid, try marriage to learn and grow beyond fear.

Truth doesn’t depend on being married or single; wake up by using whatever life gives you—love or struggle—to grow.