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How can I become more open and closer to you?

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"Closeness blossoms in the garden of non-doing; when you surrender and allow, the union deepens effortlessly."

Core Insight:
According to Osho, closeness grows through non-doing and allowing. Any how strengthens the doer and creates distance. Keep your doors open, do not prevent, and let surrender happen: first hands (action), then head (thinking), finally being. The master has already chosen you; relax, enjoy, feel grateful, melt into emptiness, and the union deepens by itself.
Like a flower opening to the sun, stop trying to force it—just relax, stay open, and let closeness happen on its own.
Why this matters practically
- Shifts you from anxious striving to trust and receptivity.
- Softens ego, making you more open, loving, and available.
- Encourages gratitude and presence, which naturally deepens connection.
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