How can I assert myself while dissolving and accepting what is happening?

According to Osho, stop thinking about the contradiction and actually dissolve into what is. In egoless acceptance, if assertion is needed, it arises spontaneously—not ‘yours,’ but the whole acting through you. Existentially there is no conflict: surrender empowers right action, supported by the total. Experience, not thought, resolves the problem; do it, and you’ll find you lose nothing and gain authentic, timely assertiveness.