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What is the underlying meaning of the repeated question about sexual relations with family members?

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"The fixation on incestuous questions reveals more about the asker's inner turmoil than a genuine curiosity; true wisdom lies in understanding that distance in relationships fosters vitality and intelligence."

Core Insight:
According to Osho, a fixation on asking about sex with close relatives betrays a hidden personal involvement or conflict, not sincere inquiry. He withholds public answers to spare the questioner and their family from shame. He adds that incest taboos are grounded in biology: genetic closeness dulls vitality, whereas greater distance fosters healthier, more intelligent offspring.
If someone keeps asking about sex with family, it likely shows their own issue; Osho stayed quiet to protect them, and says it’s unhealthy for children for scientific—not moral—reasons.
Why this matters practically
- Recognize when persistent questions mask private struggle; seek confidential help instead of public provocation.
- Base choices on biological facts: avoid close-kin unions to protect future children’s health.
- Value difference and distance in partners to enhance vitality and individuality.
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