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What is the root cause of fear of other people?

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"The fear of others is merely a reflection of the fear and condemnation we hold within ourselves; only through radical self-acceptance can we dissolve this fear and embrace true connection."

Core Insight:
According to Osho, the fear of other people springs from fear and condemnation of oneself. Relationship is a mirror; it only magnifies what already exists inside. Conditioned to hate and suppress ourselves, we dread contact because the repressed may surface. The cure is radical self-acceptance and love—dropping 'shoulds'—so inner friendliness ripples outward, dissolving fear of others.
You’re scared of others because you’re scared of yourself; people are mirrors, so be kind to yourself first.
Why this matters practically
- Shift from self-criticism to self-acceptance to reduce social anxiety.
- When fear appears in interactions, look within and heal inner judgment instead of blaming others.
- Practice simple self-love rituals (breath, body awareness, “I–Here–Now”) to grow ease and connection.
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