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Is wanting to meet another being to being a desire?

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True communion arises not from desire, but from the dissolution of the seeker and the sought, where only love remains. In the silence of trust, the meeting happens effortlessly.

— Osho
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Core Insight:
According to Osho, the wish to meet "being to being" is still a desire of the fevered mind; as long as two remain and one wants, true meeting is impossible. Real communion happens when the two dissolve - lover and beloved, master and disciple disappear - and only love or being remains. Paradoxically, by relaxing desire and entering silent trust, the meeting happens without a me seeking it.
If you’re wanting it, it’s still desire; the true meeting shows up when wanting and the sense of two people drop away.
Why this matters practically
- Helps you drop clinging in relationships, letting love feel spacious and real.
- Encourages presence and trust instead of chasing special experiences.
- Eases inner conflict by accepting aloneness and allowing connection to arise naturally.
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