When one bows, whose ego is broken—the one who bows, or the one who is bowed to?
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definition
"True humility cannot be prescribed; it must arise from inner awareness, for any gesture that merely serves to flatter or subordinate leaves both egos intact."
According to Osho, such bowing doesn't shatter ego at all; it protects it, specifically the male ego. When a nun bows to a man, the ritual props up his sense of superiority while disguising domination as humility. Real humbleness cannot be prescribed; unless it flowers from inner awareness, the gesture is political, not spiritual, leaving both egos intact: one flattered, the other subordinated.
Forced bows don’t make anyone humble; they just make the person being bowed to feel bigger.
Why this matters practically
- Helps you see through rituals that quietly maintain dominance and ego.
- Encourages humility that arises from inner awareness, not social compulsion.
- Prevents participating in practices that inflate others’ egos while suppressing your own.
- Encourages humility that arises from inner awareness, not social compulsion.
- Prevents participating in practices that inflate others’ egos while suppressing your own.
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