What happens when I fear intimacy and losing control?
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outcome
"Fear of intimacy and losing control transforms love into a mechanical act, stifling the bliss that arises in surrender and blocking the path to true meditation."
According to Osho, when you fear intimacy and losing control, you cripple love’s natural flow: the ego protects itself by withholding orgasmic surrender, turning sex into a quick, mechanical act. This fear blocks the no-mind, timeless taste of bliss that points toward meditation, stunts spiritual growth, and breeds frustration, irritability, and conflict in relationships—especially by denying women their innate capacity for deep, multiple orgasms.
If you’re scared to get close and let go, you block joy for both of you and end up tense and unhappy.
Why this matters practically
- Reveals how ego-control quietly kills bliss, depth, and growth
- Guides you to slow down, give proper foreplay, and honor both bodies
- Turns sex into a shared, meditative surrender that reduces resentment and conflict
- Guides you to slow down, give proper foreplay, and honor both bodies
- Turns sex into a shared, meditative surrender that reduces resentment and conflict
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