What should I do and not do regarding marriage?
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"Marry and learn; only through firsthand experience can you discover the truth of love, for it is in surrendering control that you confront your ego and grow."
According to Osho, if you’re wavering, marry and learn; warnings can’t replace firsthand experience. A brave person doesn’t let others’ fears decide; jump in and the truth of marriage will educate you—often by surrendering control and confronting your ego. Don’t overthink or outsource choices; act, accept consequences, and let experience—not borrowed ideas—reveal what to do and what not to do.
If you’re confused about marriage, stop worrying and try it—only living it will teach you, so be brave and accept whatever comes.
Why this matters practically
- Breaks paralysis by analysis and reduces anxiety through decisive action.
- Shifts responsibility from others’ advice to your own lived understanding.
- Builds maturity by facing consequences and learning directly from experience.
- Shifts responsibility from others’ advice to your own lived understanding.
- Builds maturity by facing consequences and learning directly from experience.
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