Why is it so difficult to fall out of love?
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outcome
"Falling out of love is difficult because we become entangled in promises and memories; instead, learn to rise in love consciously, embracing gratitude and gentle support."
According to Osho, it’s hard to fall out of love because “falling” is an unconscious, biological breeze that passes, but by then partners are entangled in promises, memories, and hurts. When love wanes, clinging creates quarrels and pain. Acknowledge no one is to blame; be grateful, help each other out gently, and learn to “rise in love” consciously.
We fall in love without control and get tangled up, so leaving hurts; accept it kindly and learn to love more consciously next time.
Why this matters practically
- Lowers blame and conflict by accepting love’s coming-and-going.
- Promotes gratitude and cooperative, gentle separation.
- Encourages practicing conscious, free “rising in love” for healthier relationships.
- Promotes gratitude and cooperative, gentle separation.
- Encourages practicing conscious, free “rising in love” for healthier relationships.
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