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What is the nature of joy and bliss experienced in love?

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"True bliss in love arises not from the other, but from the depths of your own being; it is a steady radiance that flourishes in self-awareness and presence."

According to Osho, the “joy” most people feel in love is not bliss but brief self-forgetfulness—a narcotic escape from one’s own loneliness, born of mind and lust. True bliss in love is earned through prayer, meditation, and inward depth; only then does love flower as choiceless presence, needing no “other.” When you know yourself, the illusion of the other dissolves, and love becomes a steady, self-sustaining radiance rather than a fevered high.
Being happy with someone is often just forgetting your own loneliness for a bit; real love-bliss comes when you’re full inside through inner practice, so you don’t need another to feel whole.
Why this matters practically
- Stops chasing relationships as an escape and redirects energy inward.
- Encourages meditation/prayer to cultivate love that doesn’t depend on others.
- Replaces emotional highs and crashes with stable, self-born joy.
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