What is the right approach to engage with someone I am attracted to?
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"Engage with totality and honesty, for love is a fleeting wind that must be met with your full presence before it slips away. Choose wisely, and when you do, commit without hesitation."
According to Osho, when you’re drawn to someone, stop calculating the “right dose”—enter totally, with gusto, while they’re present, because people and chances are fleeting. But first be honest about your own taste: if the flavor isn’t truly yours, involvement becomes torture. So choose with clarity, then commit without hesitation—meet the wind with totality before it passes (and before it devours you).
If they’re truly your taste, jump in fully now; if not, don’t start—and stop overthinking.
Why this matters practically
- Cuts analysis-paralysis and brings you into the present moment.
- Promotes honest self-knowledge about compatibility before diving in.
- Encourages wholehearted love instead of draining half-measures.
- Promotes honest self-knowledge about compatibility before diving in.
- Encourages wholehearted love instead of draining half-measures.
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