Why do I feel afraid of women and bored with my wife?
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outcome
"Drop the armor of conditioning and see the other as a reflection of yourself; only then can love flow and relationships blossom."
According to Osho, your fear of women—and boredom with your wife—comes from lifelong conditioning that trains men and women to distrust each other. By twenty, this fear hardens into an armor, blocking warmth, trust, and real meeting; love cannot flow, so relating turns stale. Consciously drop this conditioning: see the other as like you, open your heart, offer warmth, and participate in each other’s lives.
You feel scared and bored because you were taught to distrust love; unlearn that, be warm and open, and real connection returns.
Why this matters practically
- Replaces fear and suspicion with trust and warmth in everyday interactions.
- Helps you decondition old beliefs, soften your ‘armor,’ and invite real intimacy with your partner.
- Encourages presence and participation, turning routine marriage into a living relationship.
- Helps you decondition old beliefs, soften your ‘armor,’ and invite real intimacy with your partner.
- Encourages presence and participation, turning routine marriage into a living relationship.
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