Why do people dislike being criticized but enjoy criticizing others?
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"The ego thrives on the illusion of superiority, finding joy in criticizing others while trembling at the slightest hint of its own fragility. True freedom arises when we transcend the need for praise or blame and embrace the clarity of self-awareness."
According to Osho, people hate being criticized because the ego is a fragile patchwork of others' opinions; any blame threatens the self-image it has stitched together, so it resists and retaliates. We enjoy criticizing because trading in opinions props up the same ego by feeling superior. Freedom comes by dropping dependence on praise or blame and knowing oneself directly through awareness.
Your pretend self is built from what people say, so criticism hurts and judging others feels good; instead, trust your own clear seeing.
Why this matters practically
- Reduces suffering by not identifying with praise or blame
- Builds inner clarity and confidence beyond others' changing opinions
- Improves relationships by ending the impulse to judge and retaliate
- Builds inner clarity and confidence beyond others' changing opinions
- Improves relationships by ending the impulse to judge and retaliate
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