What happens when one decides to get married?
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"When you decide to get married, love is replaced by a contract; true love thrives in freedom and awareness, not in the confines of an institution."
According to Osho, the moment you decide to get married, love is replaced by a contract; decision belongs to the calculating mind, not to the spontaneity of love. Marriage can become possession and security, turning a living flow into an institution. He advises relating in freedom and awareness; if marriage happens, keep it a celebration, not a prison—remain alert so love stays fresh beyond vows and labels.
Deciding to marry can cage love, so stay free and aware so love stays alive beyond the contract.
Why this matters practically
- Helps you choose relationship from awareness, not fear or pressure.
- Prevents love from becoming routine, control, or possession.
- Keeps commitment alive as celebration rather than obligation.
- Prevents love from becoming routine, control, or possession.
- Keeps commitment alive as celebration rather than obligation.
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