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What should I do when I am tired of my wife?

Synthesized from Source practice

"When you feel tired of your partner, remember it is not them you are weary of, but the restless mind craving the new; true transformation comes from turning inward and observing the mind, not from changing partners."

According to Osho, being tired of your wife is the mind’s hunger for the new; changing partners only repeats the cycle. See the three layers: tired of a person, tired of the gender, and finally tired of the restless mind itself. Turn this fatigue inward: watch the mind, drop its craving through meditation and awareness. Inner transformation—not swapping relationships—ends the dissatisfaction.
Your boredom comes from a restless mind, not your wife; notice it calmly and quiet it through awareness and meditation.
Why this matters practically
- Breaks the endless cycle of chasing novelty and disappointment.
- Builds stability, empathy, and depth in your current relationship.
- Develops inner peace through meditation and self-awareness.
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