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What happens when I feel I don't love or appreciate enough?

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"The greater your love, the more you will sense its insufficiency; wanting to love more is not a failure, but a sign of growth. Even the smallest appreciation can open the door to transformation."

According to Osho, the feeling 'I don’t love or appreciate enough' is intrinsic to real love: the greater the love, the more it senses its own insufficiency. Only small love feels 'enough.' So don’t worry—wanting to love more is a sign of growth. And even a small appreciation or opening suffices; through the tiniest gap, transformation can begin.
Feeling you don’t love enough means your heart is getting bigger, and even a tiny bit of openness lets change start.
Why this matters practically
- Reduces guilt and pressure; turns self-criticism into a sign of love’s depth.
- Encourages steady practice: small, consistent openings are effective.
- Builds trust in the growth process instead of chasing perfection.
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