What should I do to get lost utterly and ultimately into absolute love?
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"Forget the dream of absolute love; embrace the rhythm of closeness and distance, for it is in the dance of losing and finding that love truly thrives."
According to Osho, forget the dream of being utterly, ultimately lost in “absolute love.” Perfectionism is neurosis. Be human: allow love to be a living rhythm—melt into the other for moments, then return to yourself. Closeness needs distance to stay musical. Drop words like ultimate and absolute; live the immediacy of the rose, where losing and finding each other keeps love alive.
Don’t try to disappear in love forever; like breathing, come close for a while and then give space, enjoying each fresh meeting.
Why this matters practically
- Prevents perfectionist pressure and burnout in relationships.
- Balances intimacy with healthy space, keeping connection fresh and alive.
- Trains presence in the moment instead of chasing impossible ideals.
- Balances intimacy with healthy space, keeping connection fresh and alive.
- Trains presence in the moment instead of chasing impossible ideals.
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